Monday, November 30, 2009

Luck Me

Well ... I lost my wallet again.

As I wrote before, I was robbed in Granada. And this weekend, just as I was about to go to the airport to return to NYC, I left my wallet at the gas station where I'd refueled my rental car. When my parents, who were nearby, went to look for it -- it was gone (and later, I found out someone tried to charge something to my credit card). And getting through airport security, while not impossible, isn't pleasant when you have no identification whatsoever.

So, yeah, it's been that kind of year. But if this whole karma thing works, that must mean 2010 will be fucking amazing, right?

Right?

But while 2009 has been quite the roller coaster ride, it's been fun. Sure, I've experienced mishaps, nursed a wounded heart on a few occasions, endured professional setbacks, and I didn't do nearly all the things I wanted to do. And I often felt a little lost, and that I was moving in the opposite direction as my peers and friends. But I lived, I learned. And I am thankful for that.

  • I've been to eight of the 38 restaurants on Eater's Must Eat List, and my first 2010 resolution is to eat at eight more.
  • OK, winter is my least favorite season and I pretty much dread the whole thing, but I am sort of looking forward to the first snow. A little.
  • I'm also looking forward to getting a real Christmas tree, one that isn't two feet tall and potted. I love love love that pine-y smell. Can't be beat.

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Homeless for the Holidays

My parents are asleep in the next room, while I "sneak" a glass of wine. They arrived yesterday and leave tomorrow for Raleigh, where I'll meet up with them and my brother next week for Thanksgiving.

It feels a bit strange to spend the holiday in Raleigh now that none of us live there. The only reason we're going there is because my brother is attending a wedding in the area, and my parents are visiting because it's my dad's 60th birthday. Otherwise, I don't know if I'll be in North Carolina for future Thanksgivings -- or Christmases, for that matter.

(I may not be there this Christmas, so L., if you're reading this, I'm sorry if I don't get to meet H.)

So if Raleigh isn't home anymore, I guess that means ... I'm a full-fledged New Yorker now?

I'm a ... Yankee?

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Family Ties


Last night was the third season finale of 'Mad Men' and I've been either watching it, thinking about it, talking about it or writing about it ever since. I've probably watched the episode in its entirety three times already, and certain scenes more than that.

It was an exceptional hour of television, to cap off a standout season. Year 3 or thereabouts is danger time for most series, when viewers' infatuation wears off and the cold, hard reality of episodic television sets in. Think about 'Lost'; in season 3, we got episodes like 'Stranger in a Strange Land' (Jack gets tattoos!), 'Par Avion' (Claire goes to the birds!) and the much reviled 'Expose' (Nikki/Paulo exist! Which I actually found hilarious). 'Lost' luckily rebounded, once the showrunners declared an end date.

'Mad Men' hasn't set an end date, but last night's finale felt like the closing of a chapter. The unraveling of characters and relationships throughout the season -- Roger checking out mentally, Joan's departure, Sal getting fired, Pete about to jump ship after missing a promotion, Peggy being wooed by Duck -- came to a highly satisfying conclusion.

And it was fun. The episode had all the makings of a caper or heist film, where different pieces come together to form a cohesive team with a single goal. I can't tell you the glee I felt when Roger left to make that phone call, because I knew it could only mean: Joan! (My colleague wrote that she's never had a bigger crush on anyone real or fictional than Joan Holloway Harris. I quite agree.)

In the scene depicted above, when the triumphant team of Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce (totally naming my band that!) gathers at the Pierre in their makeshift office, you realize: This is a family.

So it's no wonder that just at that moment, Don goes to call Betty to let her go to Reno for a divorce. He's able to do that because he's found another family to replace the one that he's losing. And while this is not the picture-perfect family he always dreamed of ... it's the one that's right.

For me, the key scene of the entire episode, and of the three seasons so far, was the one between Don and Peggy. I was struck by how humbled Don was. Someone recently told me that love humbles you. And so here Don is, hat in hand, telling Peggy that if she turns the job down, he will "spend the rest of my life trying to hire you." Isn't that love? Not in a romantic way, but not in a strictly professional or platonic or mentor-y way, either. Don and Peggy have always had a connection, an affinity, a common view of the world. And it's indefinable and inexplicable and mysterious. Like attracts like; they belong together.

I won't even attempt to talk about what might happen next season; my 'Mad Men' predictions have been woefully wrong.

In other news:
9. Attend at least two: Knicks, Rangers, Mets and Yankees games